Charley says something in Arthur Miller’s Death of a Salesman that sums up
Willy’s whole life. He asks him, "When the hell are you going to grow
up?" Willy’s spends his entire life in an illusion. He sees himself as a
great man that is popular and successful. Willy exhibits many childlike
qualities. Many of these qualities have an impact on Willy’s family. His two
sons Biff and Happy pick up this behavior from their father. He is idealistic,
stubborn, and he has a false sense of his importance in the world. Willy is like
an impetuous youngster with high ideals and high hopes. Children always have
high hopes for their future. They all want to be astronauts or millionaires.
Willy always believes he can achieve that kind of success. He never lets go of
his wasted life. He dreams of being the man who does all of his business out of
his house and dying a rich and successful man. Furthermore, Willy also dreams of
moving to Alaska where he could work with his hands and be a real man. Biff and
Happy follow in their father’s footsteps in their lofty dreams and unrealistic
goals. Biff wastes his life being a thief and a loner; furthermore, Biff, along
with happy try to conjure up a crazy idea of putting on a sporting goods
exhibition. The problem with Willy is that he never grows up and deals with his
obstacles. Willy is also a very stubborn man. He is like a little child that
wants to do something their way even though they know that another option would
be the wiser choice. Charley practically sets a potential job into Willy’s lap
and he refuses it. Willy just was fired and needed a job. He refuses one. Willy
is too stubborn to let go of his old job and take a new one. He still believes
that he is at the top of his profession. When Willy does not get his way he acts
just as a child would. He has tantrums such as when he basically challenged
Charley to a fight after he told him to grow up. Biff is also stubborn like his
father. He never gives up being a child. He steals and lies. Biff cannot handle
being ignored, so he steals a pen. Willy’s childlike stubbornness hampers him
throughout his life. Willy, like most children thinks that he is more important
than he actually is. During the whole story, he brags himself up, calling
himself a great salesman. He says that he is known everywhere. When his funeral
is to occur, Willy believed that it will be a major event. Many will come to pay
their respects to New England’s greatest salesman. He is just an old broken
down man who never was good at his job. Willy is not well known. Few attend his
funeral. When one is a child, they believe that they are more important than
they really are. As people grow older they realize that they are just one of
many in the world. Willy Loman never does realize this fact. Biff and Happy
never realize it either. They continue to believe that the Lomans are an
extraordinary family above all others. After Willy dies, Happy proclaims that he
will continue his fathers quest as the great salesman. Biff believes that the
Lomans are not liked because they are rough and tough men who use their hands.
Willy goes through his entire life believing that is a great, well known, and
well-liked salesman. Willy Loman is a child trapped in a man’s body. He never
lets go of his dreams. He does not come to grips with his failure as a salesman,
father, and husband. Willy runs away from responsibility, and he asks others for
handouts when in need. These traits have a negative impact Biff and Happy
throughout their lives. At the end of his life he lives with delusions of what
his life was and is. Willy never does grow up.